Judge not according to appearances means more than “I did not like the dress she was wearing”; “I do not think she made the right decision”: or “I do not like how he acts”-
Judge not according to appearances means that we shift our perception from the limited ideas of who and what we are-
To truly see ourselves and others requires us to rise above the law-of-average in order to see that we are more than our personalities; that we are unlimited expression of God in action.