Judge not according to appearances means more than “I did not like the dress she was wearing”; “I do not think she made the right decision” or I do not like how he acts-

Judge not according to appearances means that we shift our perception from the limited ideas of who and what we are.

To truly see ourselves and others requires us to rise above the law-of-average in order to see that we are more than our personalities; that we are unlimited expression of God in action.